I know, I know it has been two months since my last post. I ran into a friend at Target about a month ago and she got onto me for not posting. She said she reads the blog to keep up with our family. Well I hate to disapoint her but this post is not an update on my family but something that just melted my heart. (Joey makes fun of me when I use that phrase.)
There is a blog that I enjoy reading from time to time called Daniel Drinker. I am not sure how I found his blog in the beginning but I was drawn in from the documentary that he and his brother are making. Dan and his brother Will were born one year apart. Dan has Down syndrome. Will is making a documentary of Dan’s life. I have watched many of their videos and usually I am crying from laughing or just from the innocent mind of Dan. My favorite video is when Dan sees Will kissing his girlfriend. Dan starts crying because he thinks Will doesn’t love him anymore.
I think reading this blog is theraputic for me in many ways. It helps me to see just how priviledged we are to have a child with Down syndrome. I am excited to see how Josiah is going to touch the lives of people with the love that has for people.
Dan’s post at Thanksgiving had me laughing so I thought I would share it with you.
11/25/2009
(At breakfast)
Dan, “I go to Melmark and home and Gran’s and then…
what tomorrow?”
Ned, “Thanksgiving”.
Dan, “Oh yeah, Thanksgiving. And then …”
Ned, “Black Friday, when everybody goes shopping.”
Dan, “Why we go shopping, we not black? Barack Obama black.”
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Sep 28th, 2009 by Allison
When I opened the blinds in Josiah’s room this morning I found this looking at me . . .

I immediately screamed for Joey!
He walks in and calmly says, “Oh yeah, I saw that yesterday.”
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Sep 20th, 2009 by Allison
Jonah got his first busted eye. He was running on the playground, tripped and fell face first into a railroad tie.

Jonah also started soccer last week. His coached asked him if he was a “little Joey Yokeley.” He responded by saying “No, I am Jonah Yokeley.” Apparently Joey and Jonah’s soccer coach had a fight in the bathroom in middle school.
Puppy was found”died” in Jonah’s bed. He chocked on grapes. (statement taken from Jonah)

Joshua had his first baseball game. He plays on the same fields that Joey played on as a kid. His team lost their first game 13-11.

Josiah passed a test for the Speech Therapist last week. He was able to correctly show that he understands on and off. He also decided to start walking up the stairs instead of crawling. This is a goal that he reached for the Physical Therapist. The picture I took of him last week I took with my phone. I am not sure how to get it off of there.
Time will only tell what this week brings!
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Sep 18th, 2009 by Allison
When Joey and I were leading youth ministry we would start our small group meeting by having everyone share their high and low for the week. I feel like I have had a whole week built into one day today.
My Highs:
- today is Joey’s day off
- got my haircut and my head feels like it lost several pounds of weight
- ate Chic-fil-a for lunch in the car by myself
- Harris Teeter has by one get one free on ribs this week
- Saved $58 at Harris Teeter with my VIC card and coupons
- Sold the boys bunk bed on Craigs List
- Joshua had a green day at school
- Family Fun Night is tonight
My Lows:
- Jonah has been whinny all day
- Josiah climbed out of his crib and made a loud crash
- Jonah put Joey’s keys into a hole in the wall (we fished them out with a coat hanger)
- Jonah opened his antibiotics and drank at least 5 doses worth
- It looks like Jonah will have a night of diarrhea
I am so thankful for Jesus. I would not be a stable person without him!
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I have spent my morning looking through pictures of Jonah. He is starting a project at school tomorrow about himself. Parents were asked to send in pictures who people who are a part of his life. As I was looking through the pictures it made think about Jonah and his personality.
His Sweet Side:
- He often gives me hugs and kisses just because
- He often tells me I look beautiful
- He often tells me that I smell beautiful
- He likes to sing
- He likes to dress up as a fireman, superman or a police man
- He protects me from fire and is always on the look out for smoke
- He protects me from bad weather and if dark clouds are coming he reminds me to check the radar on the computer
His Devious Side:
- He once threw my facial products along with my toothbrush out the bathroom window
- He used Spray and Wash on his stuffed puppy because he was dirty
- He spayed half a can of Febreeze in my CD clock radio – no longer works
- Cleaned his frog potty with his toothbrush last week
- Put batteries down the sink drain in the bathroom
- Thinks Tums are candy and likes to eat them
- Last night while taking a bubble bath with Josiah he pooped a HUGE poop in the bath and blamed it on Josiah (It was so big I knew it didn’t come out of Josiah)
- This morning at 5:45 am I found Q-Tips all over the floor of my shower
- This morning at breakfast he told that at school last week two kids vomited, two kids got sick and died, and then the school caught on fire
- He often shows me what he has done by saying, “Mommy, I have a surprise for you . . . Ta Da!”
I keep reminding myself that these “creative” acts that he does implies a high IQ.
At then end of the day I love Jonah exactly how God made him! There is no other like him!
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Aug 29th, 2009 by Allison
Yesterday was Joshua’s first day of school. He was placed in a K-1 class which we are excited about. There are 9 kindergartners and 15 first graders in his class. We have nicknamed him Dr. Smarty and Joey is Senior Smarty.
Below is the picture I took of Joshua on the way to school. The school bus stops by our house at 6:45 am yet school starts at 8:00. We live 3-4 minutes from the school and felt it ridiculous to put him on the bus that early when we live so close.

We had talked the night before that I would drive him and walk him in on the first day. When we get to the school, I pull into the turn lane that would take me to where I could park so I could go in with him. He suddenly changes his mind and wants to walk in by himself. I made sure he understood once I pulled out of the turn lane that I was in and got in the next that I couldn’t park my car. I had to drive through the drop off. He said he was sure. So I followed the drop off line winding through the parking lot and dropped him off. He assured me he knew how to get to his class,that he knew to sit and read in the hallway until the 7:50 bell rang, and that the 8:00 bell means he should be in his seat ready to go. When I pulled out of the parking lot I teared up. I was kinda of mad that he robbed me the experience of walking him in on the first day but I was proud that he felt confident enough to go by himself.
When I got home I told Joey that I couldn’t sit in the house all day waiting for 2:40 when he would be home. Since this was Jonah’s first day of being the big brother in the house I let him chose what he wanted to do. He decided he wanted to go to the Children’s Museum. Fortunately it was Joey’s day off and he got to go too. It was a lot of fun to get to see Jonah without his big brother around. He is a different child. Below are some pictures I took of Jonah and Josiah in the fishing boat and I had to get a picture of Joey teaching Jonah how to milk a cow.


We decided to allow Joshua to ride the bus home. School gets out at 2:30 which is in the middle of nap time at our house and Joshua is the second stop as well. He gets home at approx 2:45. I was worried all day about him finding someone to sit with on the bus or sitting in someone’s seat. The older grades had been in school since Tuesday. Fortunately the bus driver had assigned seats to the kids. We had asked him repeatedly what his bus number was to he wouldn’t get on the wrong bus either. Needless to say I was counting down the minutes from 2:00 until 2:45.



I thought is was cool that I heard kids and the bus driver telling him by. One of the boys who gets off at his stop told me that their bus was the lamest bus at the school because everyone is so quiet. That made me feel good!
Since this day was so special for Josh we let him pick the menu for dinner. His favorite meal is chicken Parmesan, green beans, garlic bread and for desert ice cream with chocolate syrup and sprinkles.
Next Tuesday is Jonah’s first day at his new preschool and he is excited to have his special day like Joshua did.
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Aug 21st, 2009 by Allison
Today was the last Yokeley Friday Family Fun of Summer ‘09. Every Friday this summer was our Family Day together. To help us celebrate the end of summer we used 3 large boxes of chocolate pudding and 4 large cans of shaving cream. It was so good to laugh hard as a family!

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Aug 20th, 2009 by Allison
I had the opportunity to meet a fellow Pastor’s Wife last night. She and her husband have been serving in their church for 5 years. The church has had some issues and the attendance has been in decline. For the past year there have been 12 people in attendance on Sunday morning. That is 12 people and NOT 12 families. She has two boys ages 5 and 3. Her kids are the ONLY kids in the church. She was telling me that due to her kids being the only ones there is no nursery. Also, due to the ages of her boys they do not behave well for the entire worship service. She has not been in worship for 3 months because she is in the nursery with her kids. She also isn’t able to attend the church’s Wednesday night Bible study. Again because she is responsible for her kids. I asked if she is involved in a Women’s Bible study or MOPS group somewhere and she said no. Also, her husband is working a second job because 12 people can only support the church’s expenses so much on their own.
The thing that stood out to me the most was that while she was telling me all this she was smiling. She was full of laughter. She looked put together. She didn’t have a bitter attitude. She didn’t complain. She truly had a servants heart for her husbands ministry and their church. There is NO way that I could do what she has been doing for the past year.
Their church is actually closing in the next few weeks and joining in with another church. She is excited for her boys to come to church and have friends there. I said to her husband what a blessing it must be to think in a few weeks his wife will be able to attend worship services. His response to me was that they are excited to be able to SERVE in the nursery together.
What an example of a servan’t heart!
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Aug 18th, 2009 by Allison
Today Jonah decided he didn’t want to take a nap. Instead he decided to cause a little trouble.
I was sitting downstairs and a strange noise caught my attention. I muted the TV to listen and didn’t recognize the sound. I went upstairs and found him leaning over the floor vent for the AC and Joshua’s piggy bank was sitting beside him opened and upside down. He was emptying out the money and putting down the vent. The following is a picture of all that I pulled out. Obviously this has been happening for some time because he did not have all these items in his room when I put him down for a nap.

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Aug 17th, 2009 by Allison
I know that a lot of people will write a Thankful Thursday post however I decided to write one on Monday.
Things I am thankful for today:
- that I even survived today - I had three events happening today and I usually only do one a day with my boys
- that the boys behaved themselves while Joey and I had a meeting with his planting coach today – this was a miracle in itself and they were rewarded with football doughnuts from Krispy Kreme.
- Josiah had a good 2 year checkup – He is at 75-90% for height and at 50% for weight on the Down syndrome growth chart, on the typical developing chart he is 25% for height and 10% for weight. He had blood drawn to check his thyroid function(which is every 6 months) also a CBC count to check for levels of lead and white blood cell count (kids with Down syndrome have a higher risk of childhood leukemia)
- quality time with Jonah and Josiah tonight by ourselves – I gave them an early bubble bath and then let them lay in bed with me to watch Sprout
- that Joshua had a good first night of baseball practice - this is his first year playing modified and he said he had a lot of fun
- most of all that Jesus is near us each day to lead us through – “I lift my eyes to the hills – where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth.” Psalm 121: 1-2
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